Thank you for your polite and civil request. I will remove the picture immediately.
I have no intent to offend anyone.
But let me point out - you are perpetuating a “Lolita” style on your blog. You are dressed with pigtails in a child’s shirt in the picture you want removed. YOU are perpetuating the DD/lg lifestyle whether you think you are or not. I am merely reblogging. If you do not want to “be associated with this kind of blog and lifestyle” then I suggest you do not post such pictures of yourself.
These ARE clearly the kinds of pictures that we blog in the DD/lg and ABDL lifestyles.
I find your offense to my reblogging of your picture to be disingenuous.
But thank you, again, for your civility and kindness.
- Daddy Vinnie
THIS IS GROSS. The “Lolita” style is actually completely separate from the ddlg community. Harajuku style is what Lolita style is based on, not after the book.
This sounds a lot like “Your asking for being sexualized if you dress in this manner” And guess what? That’s victim blaming.
Its our job as a community to make sure all people involved are enthusiastically consensual. Taking people’s pictures and writing sexual comments on them, is rude AND offensive AND ignores their consent.
Saying anyone who dresses in a child’s shirt is asking for DDlg comments on their picture IS REPULSIVE. It makes the community sound like we can’t keep it in our fucking pants. Like we don’t care, we’re just going to sexualize everyone despite their wishes.
NO ONE is perpetuation jack shit, unless they want to be. Turns out MLP is entirely separate and wasn’t made for the ddlg community.
Think of it this way, if I wear my vintage pokemon shirt on the streets, im not asking for men to say “Come to Daddy, baby!” and to say I am is VICTIM BLAMING.